Dating Success For Men Over 50
Okay gentleman, DO NOT panic! I know it’s been YEARS since you’ve been on a date. I bet your thinking everything has changed, right? WRONG. Everything is pretty much the same. Dating is dating guys. Women will always be women and men will always be men. Really the only thing that has changed since the 70’s are those nasty polyester shirts with oversized collars. Or those powder blue leisure suits come to think of it. YUCK! Luckily you have me to help and guide you through this new and stressful time in your life.
There may be many reasons why you are back in the dating scene. Maybe you recently got a divorce and are finally looking to date again. Or, your wife passed away unfortunately. Whatever the case may be, everyone deserves to find love again. As do you. So I will be your coach in this matter. I will outline all the necessary steps to get back into the dating pool and be successful at it. The ladies won’t know what hit them!
Step 1- Get a makeover! YES, you heard me correctly. It’s time to put yourself first and look the part. Luckily, once again I am here to help. It is VERY important you update your wardrobe and style with just a few pieces to start. Throw out any old clothes that are too baggy or too tight. You must make sure your new clothes fit just right. Wow that rhymed. Okay enough joking around, back to business.
Step 2- Get a new hair style! I have coached many men that have NO CLUE what style looks good on them or what product to use. I have made it my mission to carefully demonstrate what hair styles look best for the “individual”. Not just what is seen in a magazine, but what looks great ON YOU.
Step 3- Hit the gym! If you have some time before your date, make sure you do a quick workout. Not only will it get the blood flowing and energize you, but it will also give you some inner confidence and a sense of well being. Exercise has been proven to release endorphins in the brain which will make you feel GREAT!
Step 4- Be Yourself! I know this doesn’t sound like much, but I’ve seen many men try to impress on the first date and it only led to failure. Women know when you are sincere or not. So be your charming handsome self and get that second date.
Dating shouldn’t be a chore guys. It should be fun, exciting, and most of all pleasant. It shouldn’t be stressful or frustrating at all. This is a time for you to connect with that special new someone that has the potential to bring great happiness back into your life. So just breath, relax, and enjoy. The rest will take care of itself.
